Treatment
What helps when HRT is not right for you, not wanted, or not enough on its own.
LoveMyLife clinical team
MRCGP-led
25 May 2026
8 min read

HRT is the most effective treatment for menopausal symptoms, but it is not the only option, and it is not right for everyone. Some women cannot take it, some choose not to, and some take it and still want to do more. There are evidence-based non-hormonal approaches, and there are also widely marketed ones that do little. This article separates the two honestly.
Lifestyle measures are worth doing whether or not you take HRT, because they help symptoms and protect long-term health at the same time.
These are not a cure for significant symptoms, but they make a real difference and carry only benefits:
Regular physical activity, including some strength work, supports mood, sleep, weight and bone strength.
Reducing alcohol and caffeine, especially in the evening, often eases flushes and improves sleep.
Keeping the bedroom cool, layering clothing, and managing triggers helps with night sweats.
Stopping smoking helps symptoms and lowers cardiovascular and bone risk.
A balanced diet with enough protein and calcium supports weight and bone health through this stage.
Cognitive behavioural therapy, or CBT, has good evidence for reducing the impact of hot flushes and for helping with the low mood, anxiety and sleep problems of menopause. It does not stop the flushes happening, but it changes how much they bother you and how well you sleep, and the benefits last. It is a genuine option in its own right, not a consolation prize, and it can be used alongside any other treatment.
Several prescription medicines that are not hormones can reduce hot flushes. Certain antidepressants in the SSRI and SNRI families, used at lower doses than for depression, can cut flush frequency, as can some other medicines originally developed for other uses. A newer class of medicine that targets the brain pathway behind flushes, given as a tablet, has recently been approved for women with moderate to severe flushes when HRT is unsuitable or unwanted. Which, if any, suits you depends on your symptoms and history and is a decision to make with a clinician.
Vaginal dryness and discomfort respond to non-hormonal vaginal moisturisers and lubricants, which can be used by anyone and are a reasonable first step or an add-on. Where they are not enough, low-dose vaginal oestrogen is highly effective and, because it acts locally, is an option for many women who cannot take systemic HRT. We cover that in a separate article.
Plenty is marketed for menopause that does not stand up. Compounded bioidentical hormones, custom-mixed and sold as natural, are not regulated for dose or quality and are not recommended. Many herbal and over-the-counter supplements, including some popular ones, show little benefit over placebo in good trials, and a few interact with prescription medicines or are not advised in women with certain cancer histories. Being natural does not make a product effective or safe.
Menopause is a good moment to think beyond symptoms. The drop in oestrogen speeds up bone loss, so weight-bearing and resistance exercise, enough calcium and vitamin D, not smoking, and modest alcohol all help protect against fractures later. Cardiovascular risk also rises after menopause, which makes blood pressure, cholesterol, activity and weight worth attention now rather than later. These measures matter whether or not you take HRT.
This is also why a good assessment looks at the whole picture, not just the flushes. Thyroid problems, low iron, high blood pressure and mood disorders can all sit alongside menopause, and picking them up at the same time is part of doing the job properly.
If HRT is not for you, you are not out of options. Lifestyle measures, CBT, and several non-hormonal medicines all have real evidence behind them, and local treatments handle vaginal and urinary symptoms well. Be wary of anything sold as a natural cure-all. A good plan often combines a few of these, and it is worth reviewing what is working rather than persisting with what is not.
Clinically reviewed
Dr Seth Rankin · MBChB MRCGP - Founder and Medical Director, LoveMyLife

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